A FUNNY LITTLE THING CALLED LIFE {Kim Mallory}

I took a trip recently.  It wasn’t your average get on a plane and fly somewhere hot and sunny and lie on the beach type trip.  It was completely opposite of that actually and I had more than a few people shake their heads at our crazy plans.  Our trip would be to the Olympic Penninsula..  with a group of students from Abbotsford’s Columbia Bible College.  Their instructor is our neighbour and their final exam for their first year student’s Outdoors Program is to take their guests (Clarke and I) on a guided backpacking tour in the wilderness.  So, we would be carrying our belongings on our back through the outback and sleeping in tents, no running water, none of the conveniences of modern life.   Now I’ve always been a hippy at heart but part of me wondered if I could swing seven days without running water, make-up, phones, computers… I guess I will find out how much of a “princess” I really am.  I like to think I’m not, but the last time I got up and didn’t put on make-up was probably 14 years ago when I went into labour in the middle of the night.  I’m also a bit leary about hurting myself after a back injury 3 years ago left me afraid of doing anything that might lead to another injury.  I was excited but completely freaked out…

“Can I really do this?”

“If I hurt myself will they be able to get a helicopter in to fly me out?”

“Will I be able to outrun a bear?   Are there cougars?  I’m skinny so probably not worth the kill but what if they get Clarke…. “

The first time they put a backpack on my back I felt like I was sinking into the ground.   Really?  seven kms with this on my back (in one day)?  Okay, don’t be a wimp just start moving.  And so I did.  Now this hike I thought was supposed to be pretty easy turned out to be more of an obstacle course than the nice little flat path I had expected.  We were up huge slopes that had ropes on them to get you up the hill, we were down crazy drops and turns and rocks and roots and slogging through mud, crossing rivers and creeks via fallen trees.  I think the variety of the terrain made me forget how long a hike it was.

At one point in the trip one of the guides suggested that he take my backpack for me down the slippery slope…. I slowly took it off and handed it to him, looked at the slope and thought to myself. I came here to backpack and I’m going to get that thing down that slope on my back because that’s why I’m here.  I told him:  ”I need to do this for me so gimme that thing”.  This whole trip is one big personal challenge and I’m not going to be carried through it.

The experiences and lessons I learned on this trip were vast.

  • I learned that the weather doesn’t have to be perfect to enjoy nature.
  • That the pain is temporary.
  • You can either talk yourself out of  it or talk yourself through it.
  • Less is more…
  • and by having less… I felt more.
  • By being unplugged I became connected.
  • By trusting I felt safe.

To say this was just a week in the woods is an understatement….  it was truly a life changing experience for me and I will carry many of the lessons I learned on this trip throughout my life.  I can’t thank our six young guides enough.  They were teamwork at its best.  Courtney, Alexis, Aaron, Dan, Cynthia & Deanna lead by example.  Kind & caring, hard working, positive & professional..  We struggled through days of rain and wind and came out to sunshine on the other end.  Every challenge that we experienced was rewarded with a life lesson. Never in my wildest dreams would I have imagined that I could come away from a trip with so much.  It wasn’t a hot sunny beach but it was amazing.  Thanks so much Chris for inviting us to be a part of this unique experience!  You are amazing at what you do.

 

And more of our trip images mostly taken with my point and shoot.  Note to self… leave camera equipment at home……  it’s far too heavy…

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Kathe - Way to go Kim, I knew you could do it! Can’t wait to hear more about it….sounds amazing, Dean is so jealous!

Susan - Wow Kimmy thanks for sharing… I have known you for over 2o years and you are truly one of the strongest women I know in so many ways. This was very inspiring and the lessons you learned made me think about my own life in so many ways. And of course when I read about the moment you grabbed that back pack back…reminded me how tough you are….and the inner strength you possess. You daughters are so blessed to have such an amazing role model in their lives. Your blog brought me to tears…( I know…SHOCKING!!) You go girl…Love you! I’m proud of you and honored to have you for a friend oxoxo

Kim Mallory - If you’re trying to make me cry woman, it’s working. I love you my sweet friend!

xoxo

Carla - Awesome Kim!! What a great experience and your description of it doesn’t disappoint!!

DESERT SHOOTOUT {Kim Mallory in Vegas Baby}

So my kids are getting older and my business is getting busier and it’s time to start setting some lofty goals. If you know me you know I get restless when things are too “normal”  - whatever normal is.  I feel like there is so much life to be lived and  to spend my whole entire life working and living a conventional life scares the crap out of me.   I don’t even know what I want other than to get out of dodge and experience different things.  I’ve managed to quell my gypsy spirit by painting my house, renovating a studio and take vacations as often as possible.. but alas, that feeling is rising again and I’m not sure painting my house is gonna work anymore.  I know I need to be home to finish raising my kids, but my dreams are worldly and my kids will be gone in the blink of an eye hopefully living their own adventures.  So now… I’m planning and dreaming…

These images shot in Vegas make me realize WHY I need to seek adventure…  I mean really…  life is too short.

 

 

 

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BABY MIA {Chilliwack Newborn Photography}

I had the pleasure of shooting the very sweet and very alert – Mia Grace Marie at the ripe old age of 10 days!  She was everything you could ever want in a baby… cute, cuddly, warm, soft and wrinkly… just a joy to her proud mama and papa!  The baby announcements are in the making and the wall display will be hung with pride… a wonderful reminder of this fleeting time that is so incredibly life changing and exciting in so many ways!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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SAVE THE PARAMOUNT {Chilliwack Vintage Theatre – A Vision}

in our town there is a little movie theater just up the street from my studio that was boarded up not too long ago and is now on the chopping block for a demolition.  Now call me a sap, but I love anything arts and vintage and the thought of this little gem being torn down makes me cringe.  By some strange sequence of events and a bit of serendipity, I ended up becoming a part of a team of some amazing people that are on a mission to save the Paramount with some very strong support!  So, this is my plea to everyone that I can reach through this blog to please contact me.  We are looking for local businesses and volunteers to help with our cause.

There is an urgent meeting planned for Monday, March 12th at 7pm at the old Chilliwack Arts Center.  This is where you will hear the details about how WE as a COMMUNITY can come together.  Imagine a theater refurbished back to the glory of the 1940′s playing Gone with the Wind, or a fun Friday night out to watch The Rocky Horror Picture Show (BYO Confetti).  It’s like The Ridge, right in your own backyard.

So join us at the old Chilliwack Arts Center tomorrow night…

The Old Chilliwack Arts Center (Auditorium)
45899 Henderson Ave., Chilliwack, BC

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Vanessa - What a beautiful theatre! Our small town theatre looks to be heading in the same direction :( . It’s sad. Especially considering ours is still used today. I love the idea of refurbishing it!

Shelley - How very sad to see this theatre in this condition. It was where I saw my first movies in 1978 (a “Bednobs and Broomsticks” and “Mary Poppins” double header).

It is where my mother and I went every Tuesday night through my tumultuous teen years: it is the one thing we could always do together. It was the scene of many of my first dates, and first kisses. I love how your photos capture the romantic aspect of that old building.

I am a long way from Chilliwack now, and have been for a long time, but I wish you the best in your endeavours to save this theatre.

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